Melanie Verwoerd
New Balance 574 Women Coupon_1468,

Authentic 234221 Nike Air Max Press Men White Black Shoes

2018-05-30 07:47

New Balance 891 Women Coupon_1521,Comfortable 171882 Nike Air Max Women Black ShoesNew Balance 999 Women Coupon_1558, Nike Derrick Rose Men Coupon_1669,Nike Kevin Durant Men Coupon_1731,

Womens Shoes Cole Haan Bowie Slipon Sneaker Black/Vanilla Snake Print

If someone experiences an action or utterance as racist does it necessarily make it racist, or does the intention of the "perpetrator" make a difference in how harshly someone should be judged for their words or actions? 

Nike LeBron James Men Coupon_1864,Discount 180340 Nike Air Max Women Black Punch Grape White ShoesJORDAN FLIGHTFLEX Black/Black/Black,,Men's Basketball Shoe LeBron XIII Low 831925-016,Men's Football Cleat Nike Alpha Pro 2 3/4 TD LE 2.0 820280-140,.Inexpensive 218785 Nike Air Max Women Black ShoesMen's Golf Shoe Nike Air Zoom Attack 853739-001,.

These questions have arisen with a renewed sense of urgency for me during the debate that erupted after Ashwin Willemse walked off the set of SuperSport recently.

Although I don't want to debate the specifics around this case, it did raise fundamental questions about experience as well as the role of intention for me.

men's NIKE AIR MAX 2015 698902-005,Inexpensive 190583 Nike Air Max Women Blue Pink ShoesMEN'S NIKE FREE TRAINER 3.0 V4 749361-008,,Men's Nike Shoe Jordan CP3.IX AE 833909-016,Men's Running Shoe Nike Air Max 2017 849559-101,.Cheap 162458 Nike Air Max Women Gray Pink ShoesMen's Running Shoe Nike Free 5.0 Solstice 806587-001,.

In certain cases of crude racism, such as the use of the k-word or explicit racial or sexual stereotyping, there can be no debate. It is racist or sexist no matter what the perpetrator claims to have been the intention or circumstances. Thus, the courts could rule on Penny Sparrow's tweets and Vicky Momberg's outbursts.

Although there are undoubtedly many people who are still guilty of these overt incidences of racism, I believe it is the less crude forms of prejudice, which are so prevalent in our society, that often cause the biggest damage. It is in the tone of voice, the patronising smile, the body language, institutional cultures and systems. Yet, despite or perhaps because of its insidious nature, it is often tolerated until some trigger causes a dramatic reaction.

Men's Running Shoe Nike LunarTempo 2 818097-300,Discount 240912 Nike Air Max Women White Pink ShoesMen's Shoe Jordan Eclipse 724010-405,,Men's Shoe Nike Air Huarache Premium 704830-005,Men's Shoe Nike Air Max 90 Ultra 2.0 Flyknit 875943-400,Shopping 181936 Nike Air Max 1 Women Blue Orange White ShoesMen's Shoe Nike Air Oscillate 140370-106,.

As a white person, I have only on the very rare occasion experienced racism – and it was horrible. But as a woman, I deal with sexism on an almost daily basis. (I immediately want to acknowledge that I am conscious that I am at the tip of the pyramid of injustice. As a woman I experience sexism, but because of my race, class and sexual orientation I will always experience far less discrimination than, for example, a black, gay or poor woman.)

Womens Shoes Cole Haan Nantucket Loafer Argento Metallic

Men's Shoe Nike Air Zoom Wildhorse 3 749336-010,Shopping 210505 Nike Air Max 247 Women Black Blue Grey ShoesMen's Shoe Nike Hypershift 844369-606,,Men's Shoe Nike Metcon 3 852928-002,Men's Shoe Nike Zoom All Out Low 878670-401,Authentic 187030 Nike Air Max 1 Women Grey Blue White ShoesMen's Soft-Ground Soccer Cleat Nike Tiempo Legend VI SG-PRO 819680-010,.

Although I experience crude sexism far less these days (perhaps men are a bit more careful around me), I can think of at least three instances in the last four days where I was patronised by men. I'm sure that all these men would argue that they did not intend to patronise me. Yet, it was without doubt patronising. How can I be so sure? Because, you know it when you feel it.

That is, for me, the key and part of the answer to my original question. If it is experienced as racist or sexist it almost certainly is. You know it when you feel it.

Of course, given upbringing and conditioning linked to our political history, it is also true that people honestly do not always understand that or why something they say or do is racist. Thus, they are honest in their defence of "I did not intend to be racist". However, that can too easily become a blanket excuse. "I did not mean to kill that person" could still result in a manslaughter conviction in court. Equally, "I did not intend to patronise or racially abuse you" can never alleviate the burden of injury or need for restitution.

Men's Training Shoe Nike Zoom Speed Trainer 3 804401-007,Authentic 151969 Nike Air Max 90 Hyp Prm Women Grey Red ShoesNIKE AIR MAX 1 ULTRA ESSENTIALS Pure Platinum/Black/Game Royal,,NIKE AIR TECH CHALLENGE II White/Liquid Lime/Black,NIKE FREE 4.0 FLYKNIT Pink Pow/Bright Mango/Fireberry/Black,.Cheap 186804 Nike Air Max Women Orange Blue ShoesNIKE LUNARGLIDE 6 Black/Pure Platinum/Cool Grey/White,.

So what does restitution involve? On the most basic level it requires the willingness to listen and hear the "other" (both individually and collectively) when they express their pain, hurt and anger. There must be a willingness to accept the point of view of the person/s who have been offended, no matter what the intention was. So, not to say: "I did not intend it that way" or "don't play the race card" as I so often hear people say. The listening should be followed by a sincere apology and measures or actions to fix the problem.

Importantly, we should remember that institutional and systemic racism and sexism are even more insidious and thus more difficult to pin down. However, they exist – big time. Those who feel them, know it. As with individual cases, systemic and institutional apologies as well as restitution are extremely important (think: land debate at the moment).

Of course, it does require that someone has to express the hurt or offence that was felt. Often that does not happen and when it finally does people are surprised and shocked.

NIKE AIR ZOOM PEGASUS 33 831352-401,Comfortable 217150 Nike Air Max Women Black Turquoise ShoesWomen's Shoe Nike Air Huarache Premium 683818-005,,Women's Shoe Nike Air Zoom Elite 8 748589-401,,Women's Shoe Nike Free TR 6 833413-142,Cheap 221473 Nike Air Max Excellerate Women Grey Orange ShoesWomen's Training Shoe Nike Lunar Sculpt 818062-403,.

I have to confess with all three cases of feeling and being(!) patronised I did not say or do anything. There are many reasons for it. I did not want to make a scene, I did not think it would change that person and sometimes I am just tired of fighting a bunch of sexists.

My guess is that many people who experience racism would give similar reasons for not always reacting.

But, I also know that even though I often don't react to sexist behaviour, every incident finds a home in my body and mind where it quietly waits till the one day when I have just had enough. Enough of being patronised through words, body language and actions. Enough of a system that assumes that I am inferior, must earn less and behave in a certain way purely because I am a woman. 

Adidas D Lillard 2.0 Boys Preschool Black/Scarlet Basketball Shoes V25589,Comfortable 184141 Nike Air Max Women Cyan Black ShoesAdidas D Lillard 1.0 Boys Grade School White/Black/Gold Metallic Basketball Shoes V88062,,Nike Air Max 95 Boys Grade School White/Dark Grey/Metallic Silver/Total Orange Running Shoes V90988,.Nike Air Max 95 Le Girls Grade School Black/Pink Pow/White/Photo Blue/Volt Running Shoes V24129,Discount 181376 Nike Classic Cortez Nylon VIbrant Women Blue White ShoesAdidas D Lillard 1 Mens Black/Yellow/White Basketball Shoes V38480,.

As many men would be able to testify, once I reached that point of "enoughness" I certainly did not just politely walk off "set".

And so, when someone says, "I feel patronised" or "that is racist" we need to understand that it is always just the tip of the iceberg and all of us (individually and collectively) need to react in a manner that shows some humility and acceptance of our prejudices – intended or not.

Womens Sandals ECCO Touch 45 Wedge Sandal Trooper/Ice Flower/Ice Flower

Adidas D Rose 773 4 Mens Black/Bold Pink/Night Flash Basketball Shoes V14322,Shopping 221926 Nike Classic Cortez Nylon Women Light Blue Yellow ShoesAdidas Pureboost 2 Mens Grey/Black/Green/White Running Shoes V56675,,Adidas Adissage Fade Mens Dark Onyx/Tech Grey/Vivid Yellow Slippers V51470,Nike Air Max Excellerate 4 Mens Black/University Red/Bright Crimson/White Running Shoes V29166,.Authentic 196103 Nike Air Max 90 Women Purple White ShoesAdidas Solar Boost Mens Black/White/Shock Red Running Shoes V36016,.

Read more on:    prejudice  |  racism
X
Nike Free 3.0 Flyknit 2015 Mens Black/Hot Lava/Squadron Running Shoes V20320,

Local government is in crisis. How it can be fixed

2018-05-30 09:14
NEXT ON NEWS24X
Nike Shox Nz Mens White/Black/White Running Shoes V88954,

Local government is in crisis. How it can be fixed

2018-05-30 09:14

SHARE:

Adidas Cosmic Boost Womens Black/White/Solar Blue Running Shoes V36315,Comfortable 225519 Nike Dunk High Women Anthracite Yellow ShoesAdidas Vigor 6 Tr Womens Flash Red/Silver Metallic/Frozen Green Running Shoes V53967,,Nike Air Max Sequent Womens Black Running Shoes V12807,Nike Air Zoom Pegasus 32 Womens Black/Pure Platinum/Reflective Silver Running Shoes V24343,.Authentic 227008 Nike Dunk High Women Dark ShoesNike Free 5.0 2015 Flash Womens Black/Cool Grey/Pure Platinum/Reflective Silver Running Shoes V15578,.

publishes all comments posted on articles provided that they adhere to our Comments Policy. Should you wish to report a comment for editorial review, please do so by clicking the 'Report Comment' button to the right of each comment.

Nike Tri Fusion Run Womens Black/White/Dark Grey Running Shoes V33870,Cheap 187042 Nike Dunk Low Women ShoesMen's Nike Free 5.0 Print Pure Platinum/Hot Lava/Black UK#N5-9184,Men's Nike SB Check Canvas Cool Grey/White/Dark Obsidian UK#N5-9380,Women's Nike Classic Cortez BR Artisan Teal/Volt/White UK#N5-9395,Authentic 175270 Nike Air Max Command Women Black Pink White ShoesHype Hype Backpack CP61,

Comment on this story
26 comments
Add your comment
Comment 0 characters remaining

Inside News24

 

Welcome to News24

Get Published!
UPLOAD
UCLA Morrilton Varsity Jacket CP1546,
adidas Originals Premium Essentials Fleece Short CP2064,
/News
Criminal Damage Noir Windbreaker Jacket CP1332,
Traffic Alerts

Ellesse Rimini Nylon Front Track Top CP3563,

Jobs in Western Cape region

Financial Advisor

Western Cape
Lyon Capital

Fieldwork Administrator - Wellington WC

adidas Originals Adilette Slide Sandal CP3810,
Original Penguin Legit Suede Shoe CP3929,
adidas Originals ZX Flux Trainer CP4067,

Cellular Sales: Store Manager

Asics Gel-Lyte V Trainer CP4213,
Creative Recreation Kaplan Patent Suede Trainer CP4361,
Hugo Boss Spacito Trainer CP4480,

Nike Zoom Stefan Janoski Trainer CP4619,

Nike Air Force 1 Trainer CP4807,

APARTMENTS / FLATS FOR SALE IN Mossel Bay, Dana Bay

Apartments / Flats Ralph Lauren Polo Harvey SP Suede Trainer CP4958,

Nike Air Max 1 Ultra Moire Trainer CP4862,

APARTMENTS / FLATS FOR SALE IN Gordons Bay, Gordons Bay Central

Apartments / Flats Flossy Womens Neon Plimsoll CP5194,

Womens Shoes adidas Cloudfoam VS City Blue Zest/Matte Silver/Clear Onix,

HOUSES FOR SALE IN Touws River, Schoemansville

Houses Womens Boots Aerosoles In An Instint Dark Brown Combo,

There are new stories on the homepage. Click here to see them.
 
English
Womens Boots Clarks Orinocco Eave Black Oily Leather,
Womens Sandals Clarks Caslynn Reece Nude Leather,

Hello 

Create Profile

Creating your profile will enable you to submit photos and stories to get published on News24.


Please provide a username for your profile page:

This username must be unique, cannot be edited and will be used in the URL to your profile page across the entire 24.com network.

Settings

Location Settings

Womens Shoes Clarks Everlay Daphne Brown Leather,Comfortable 245321 Nike Free 3.0 V2 Women Black Purple ShoesWomens Boots COACH Urban Hiker Saddle/Natural Shearling,,Womens Shoes COACH Olive Cornflower,Womens Boots Cole Haan Dover Riding Boot Woodbury,.Buy 212410 Nike Dunk High Women Beige Magenta Green Yellow ShoesWomens Sandals Cole Haan Augusta Sandal Black Patent,.

News24 allows you to edit the display of certain components based on a location. If you wish to personalise the page based on your preferences, please select a location for each component and click "Submit" in order for the changes to take affect.





Facebook Sign-In

Hi News addict,

Join the News24 Community to be involved in breaking the news.

Log in with Facebook to comment and personalise news, weather and listings.

 
  • Buy 187703 Nike Air Max Women Shoes
  • Nike Lunar Blazer SB High Blue White Mens Sneakers 3129594
  • Eminence KILOMAX PRO 15 8ohm 15" 1250watt Subwoofer
  • Adidas Terrex Scope High Gtx Men's Walking Shoes Black COMUK:1430
  • Gorgeous Nike Boys Tech Fleece Shorts Grey Boys 9931
  • Big Savings TOMMY HILFIJGER KADESA STYLE # TWKADESA 20UR-2556 for Women
  • Nike Roshe Cortez NM LTR Women Black
  • Puma R698 Black
  • * Adidas Mid Men Red Campus Vulc
  • Limited Mens Lowa Innox Gtx Walking Boots Black
  • Big Boy Size LeBron 12 Luxury ID Websites XII Total Black Bright Citrus Orange
  • Air Force HIGH-0011
  • Hottest - Minnesota Vikings Brett Favre #4 Youth Authentic Jersey Purplecustomized jerseys nflnfl jerseys nike or reebokUSA Cheap Sale
  • Cheap Nike Roshe Two Womens Grey Black White
  • Mens Pink Nike Shoes Dunk Sb 2012 New High Cut Yellow Sky Blue Deep
  • Incredible Print Print Women Ed Tassle Kaftan V By
  • 4901 Best Nike Free Flyknit 5.0 Women Running Shoes
  • HPZL315ZYVW Sesto Meucci - Discount Cuoio New Calf 54700d
  • Nike Air Max Flair Running Shoe KPU Dark Obsidian/White
  • Air Jordan 13 Sneakers Retro Jordan 13 For Sale Retro Jordan 13 For Sale 70 Off Retro Jordan 13 Find
  • Buy 214092 Nike Free 4.0 V2 Women Green Blue Shoes